I have two questions:
1. Say that Carbon, before being bonded to 4 H atoms needs to have 4 sp^3 hybrid orbitals. sp^3 is created by 3 p orbitals and 1 s orbital. However, elec. conf. of Carbon is 1s^2 2s^2 2p^2, meaning that it has two 2p orbitals. Question: does an 2s electron need to be in exited state (in a 2p orbital) so that carbon actually has 3 2p orbitals in order for the 4 sp^3 orbitals to form?
2. In molecular orbital theory, a molecule forms two types of orbitals when a bond forms: the bonding hybrid orbital and the antibonding hybrid orbital. The bonding hybrid orbital is lower in energy so that ground state electrons occupy only that orbital. Does this mean that when the molecule is in exited state and its electrons jump to the antibonding orbital the molecule becomes unstable and falls appart?