Acids of a central atom surrounded by O atoms and OH groups are termed Oxy Acids.
They can be represented as
XO
n(OH)
mThe magnitude of K, in general, depends on the value of n, the number of additional oxygen atoms
other then those in the OH group; which is where you are making your mistake.
In all three acids, they have only 1 Oxygen atom not in a OH group surrounding the central P; as a result they all have the same general acid strength.
I guess an easy way to explain it would use inductive effect, though a MO approach would be better.
Look at Phosphoric acid. The =O bond is highly polar, but it is pulling against 3 equivalent OH groups, as a result the 3 equivalent OH groups experience very little inductive effect, and as a result, on a whole the molecule is not very polar with respect to the OH's.
If we look at Phosphorus acid, the =O bond has to only pull on two OH groups, as a result, in general those two OH groups experience more of an inductive effect, and as a result those two Oh groups are slightly more polar the Phosphoric Acid.
Hypophsophorus acid the =O can apply all its "inductive effecteviness" on only one OH group, making it much more polar and easier to remove.
Now, to get a grasp on the inductive effect theory, look at carboxylic acids:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inductive_effectNow, you might then want to ask why then is H atoms attached directly to the P in Phosphorus and Hypophosorus acid not the H to be the acidic acid?
You can sorta justify this with a resonance approach:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Resonance_(chemistry)
But, trying to use these two methods to understand it gets very convoluted, and starts causing all sorta of trouble.
The three you, or your teacher happened to pick, just so happen to be the exceptions to the Oxy Acid rule, and to explain it with any real kind of merit requires a Molecular Orbital approach (and a very complicated on at that, complicated relative to why you might learn O
2 is paramagnetic using MO).
Now, it is late, maybe I am just missing something super simple...