Fe has what is called dsp hybridization/bonding. And yes all three orbitals participate in the bonding.
Fe: 1s
2 2s
2 2p
6 3s
2 3p
6 4s
2 3d
6For Fe we can write Fe: 1s
2 2s
2 2p
6 3s
2 3p
6 3d
6 4s
2 Fe
3+: [Ar]3d
6Fe
2+: [Ar]3d
5So for Fe we have 3s
2 3p
6 3d
6Fe forms d
2sp
3 Hybrids
These particular d2sp3 hybrids are combinations of two 3d, the 3s, and three 3p functions.
The 3s : 3 is the energy level, S is the subshell, 1 orbital
The 3p: 3 is the energy, p is the subshell, 3 orbitals p
x, p
y, and p
zThe 3d: 3 is the energy, d is the subshell, 5 orbitals d
yz, d
xz, dxy, d
x2-y2, and d
z2.
In general:
S subshell has only 1 orbital.
The p subshell has 3 orbitals.
The d subshell has 5 orbitals.
The f subshell has 7 orbitals.
In Fe there are 6 electrons in the 3d shell.
Hence, the designation d
2sp
3 Hybrids
For octahedral iron complexes: There are six d
2sp
3 hybrid orbitals. They are arranged in an octahedral layout so that each has four other orbitals at 90° to it and one at 180°.
The following links should help you too:
http://faculty.colostate-pueblo.edu/linda.wilkes/111/3c.htmhttp://winter.group.shef.ac.uk/orbitron/AO-hybrids/d2sp3/index.htmlhttp://www.chem1.com/acad/webtext/chembond/cb09.htmlhttp://www.chemguide.co.uk/inorganic/complexions/whatis.html