When you think about the stability of the hydrogen ions, however, what is more stable in aqueous solution; the H+ ion or the H- ion? The H+ ion is by a long margin. Most hydrides that I know of are not very stable and will quickly react with other things. Most compounds that I know of which have hydrogen in a positive oxidation state are quite stable. (NaOH, H2O, CH3CH2OH, etc. etc). Another thing to consider is that hydrogen actually is a metal but with an INCREDIBLY low melting point. If you solidify fluorine, chlorine, bromine, and iodine you still have non-metal elements. If you solidify hydrogen, however, it actually is a metal. So I think that hydrogen is placed where it is not only for aesthetic reasons, but for chemical reasons as well.
Why Group 7
*Poor conductor of heat & electricity (group 1 are good conductors)
All gaseous elements are pretty poor conductors of heat and electricity.
*Non-metal (group 1 is metals)
At room temperature, but if turned into a solid it basically is a metal.
*CAN react with alkali metals
MUCH more readily reacts with the halogens. Put some chlorine and hydrogen together and just add some light and they'll react. You have to coerce Hydrogen into reacting with the alkali metals.
*Oxidation number -1.
Not very stable with an oxidation number of -1. Far more stable with an oxidation number of +1. Also, the alkali metals can exist with an oxidation state of -1, but again, their stability is virtually non-existant.