Thank you for the replies, when mentioning that the hydronium Ion is now positive do not forget we still have one extra lone pair on the oxygen, surely the greater electronegativity of the oxygen will still be a much stronger force thus being attracted to another proton, I am most probably wrong in thinking this but this question has been bugging me for some time.
You see I keep thinking of NH3 with its lone pair which is able to accept a proton thus becoming NH4 via dative covalent bonding, can not h30 do the same?