In reactions we always use molar ratios.
You should start from (balanced) reactions (at least for reagents on the left sider and the product on the right side), then calculate moles from masses and volumes of reagents.
In Grignard reactions we usually uses some excess of Grignard reagent, hence methyl benzoate is probably the limiting reagent. If you do not know a density of methyl benzoate, approximate its density to 1.0 g/mL (but not for C6H5Br - usually density is on the bottle od commercial reagent)
PhCOOCH3 + 2Mg + 2C6H5Br + H2O => Ph3COH