OK, with some help from my friend, here is what I did:
So apparently there are two deprotenations, I am not sure but I calculated the second ones:
pH = pka2 + log ([CO3 2-]/[HCO3-])
-log(3.5*10^-11) = 10.25 + log ([CO3 2-]/[HCO3-])
10.46-10.25 = log ([CO3 2-]/[HCO3-])
10^0.21 = [CO3 2-]/[HCO3-] = 1.622
1.622 = (CO3 2-) / 0.1-(CO3 2-)
CO3 2- = 0.06164
multiply that by 1 L, moles CO3 2- = 0.06164
0.06164 + 0.1 = 0.16164
0.16164 * 39.99 = 6.47 grams NaOH
Is this right?
I entered 6.46 before and it was wrong.
And as you can see I don't really understand what I did myself, so any clarification would be appreciated..
Edit: yeah and I don't know where she got the second value of pka either. That was really confusing to me.