An electron-donating substituent doesn't rule it out as the ylide Ph
3P=CHOMe is a nice way to homologate a ketone or aldehyde (i.e. form a vinyl ether that's hydrolyzed to give an aldehyde with an extra CH
2). However, I believe the methyl ether is necessary for kinetic stability of the phosphonium salt (what you make the ylide from). With a hydrogen on oxygen, it would likely decompose to formaldehyde and triphenylphosphine.
I suspect the NH
2-substituted phosphonium salt would suffer from a similar problem, and you can't have methyls on nitrogen in the product....gfunk: if you find anything, I'm interested. I do miss SciFinder
Re: your original synthesis, I think the LAH reduction might be a problem. Generally, cyanohydrins are not stable to basic conditions. The conjugate base can kick out cyanide ion to give back cyclohexanone. Even if this elimination is reversible, the ketone is more easily reduced than the nitrile, so you'd probably end up with cyclohexyl alcohol.
You could cap the OH of the cyanohydrin with a TMS group (or just use TMSCN from the get go) and then reduce. Deprotection of the TMS could probably just go in with the dehydration step.
Since you're looking for another way: I like your retrosynthetic analysis of RCH
2-NH
2 => RCN. Is there any other way to incorporate the nitrile other than cyanohydrin formation?