Well, I can only add that the [Co(H
20)
6]
3+ ion is somewhat of a weirdo. It is the only first row transition metal that forms a low spin complex with the weak field H
20 ligand (the other first row transition metals need a strong field ligand to form a low spin complex). Other than that, the book I used discouraged the use of hybrid orbitals when working with MO diagrams, so I am no help there