Well, here's what I did, in case anyone's interested:
I added isopropyl alcohol dropwise to the SiCl4. This was still pretty exothermic, but reacted slower so that HCl vapor production was reduced. After the SiCl4 was quenched, I simply diluted with aqueous NaOH to neutralize the HCl.
This was the first time that I worked with SiCl4 and was a little nervous about it. I've read that mixing with water can be explosive and it was the HCl vapor evolution that worried me a bit. It wasn't so bad to work with, but safety precautions must be taken with this chemical!