This reaction is certainly exothermic (as you suspect), but there are one or two issues which you need to clear up:
(1) Your equation has Ca(OH)
2(aq) on the left-hand side and CaCl
2(
s) on the right-hand side - it should be CaCl
2(
aq) on the right-hand side
(2) I haven't my data-book at hand, but you appear to be using enthalpy changes of formation for these two calcium compounds in the solid form, whereas you need to look up values for the aqueous forms, or, at any rate, deduce them, just as you did for HCl(aq)
(3) You haven't doubled the enthalpy changes of formation for H
2O(l) and HCl(aq); after all, there are two moles of each involved in the equation
Finally, yes, the enthalpy change of formation of HCl(aq) can be found by adding together the value for HCl(g) PLUS the enthalpy change of dissolution
One final point: You would save yourself a great deal of 'strife' by realising that this reaction is an ionic one taking place in solution, and that the effective process taking place is:
2OH
-(aq) + 2H
+(aq)
2H
2O(l)
The calculation then is very easy: just look up the enthalpy changes of formation of OH
-(aq), H
+(aq) and H
2O(l) and carry out some very easy calculations!