That is a good question. At first, I didn't think I could answer it, but upon further thought, I believe I can.
Let us use the 4'-hydroxybenzaldehyde with benzaldehyde example first. If the product was the result of addition of thiamine to benzaldehyde and the addition of its anion to 4-hydroxybenzaldehyde, then we would know the key or rate determining step is the formation of the anion of the thiamine adduct. However, if the opposite product were the major product, then we could conclude that thiamine could add to either carbonyl group and the rate determining step were the addition to the carbonyl group.
However, that isn't what I would expect to happen at all. Since thiamine is used only in a catalytic amount, I would expect that thiamine would add to it more quickly than to the 4'-hydroxybenzaldehyde. Deprotonation of the adduct would give the anion. I would again expect the benzaldehyde to be more reactive. The reaction should give the benzaldehyde-benzaldehyde adduct until the concentration of benzaldehyde falls to begin to have some mixed product. If the reaction proceeded further, then I would expect the hydroxybenzaldehyde product to form, though at a slower rate.
I would expect the same process with the bromo and fluoro example, but with a large amount of mixed product. I would expect the bromo to react faster as bromine is more electron withdrawing. See
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hammett_equation