I suppose it is only effect of 'relative brightness' seen by the eye and analyzed by brain, not a real physical process. Flame color is identical with the bright lamp in the background, so it is no longer the brightest spot.
Does the flame look dark when the sodium lamp is on the side, so that it is not blinding you and only the flame is lighted (you don't see any reflections that could be blinding)? If so, there is some physics to it, If not, it is only physiology