I'm afraid you're panicking a little unnecessarily.
All of the commercial diethyl ether that I've seen contains a peroxide inhibitor. These can be stored unopened for quite a while. I have no idea how old that bottles that I receive have been, but I've never seen any trace of peroxides in previously unopened bottles.
Once the bottle is opened, there is a chance that oxygen is present, and the bottle should not be stored longer than six months after that. In our lab, we date the bottle when it is received and when it is opened, and discard it six months after opening. There is still some discussion about how long we should store unopened bottles, but it looks like we will probably settle on one year. That way we won't have to test for peroxides; a year in an unopened bottle isn't long enough to form a significant amount.
If you are distilling ether, you have to be more careful; distillation removes the ether from the stabilizers. When I was working with distilled ether, we maintained the ether (over sodium for drying) in the pot, and distilled off only as much as we needed, discarded whatever distillate wasn't used that day. Now, the anhydrous ether is clean enough I haven't needed to use distilled ether in a long time.
Finally, peroxides are only an issue when they are dry. You can test the solution for the presence of peroxides with no problems. IF there are peroxides present, you don't want to use that ether, because as the ether evaporates the peroxides will precipitate. If your ether tests positive for peroxides, do something about it - quench it and discard, or you can try some of the methods for breaking the peroxides and redistilling the ether if you absolutely have to keep it. Adding the appropriate stabilizers, of course.
If you see crystals forming in the bottle, however, you now have a dangerous situation, and at that point the bomb squad might be a good idea...