And if you are really concerned about the exact kinetics of a reaction mechanism, there are ways to test it and determine the rate of individual steps. When I was in grad school, coupling of multiple mass spectrometers was just starting to be a big research area. You could fire a stream of molecule A in the gas phase, combine it with a stream of molecule B, and send it through a series of mass spectrometers spaced at different distances along the flight path. You could then identify different intermediates along the pathway, where the distance was directly related to the reaction time. This let you calculate the rate of each step along the reaction pathway by the appearance and disappearance of various intermediates with time. It was very elegant work for its era.
But in most cases, the rate of one step is at least a couple of orders of magnitude slower than the other steps, and there is a less than 1% error in assuming that the other steps don't contribute at all to the time required by the reaction.