oh,oxidation number and oxidation state is so complex and made me crazy, but now i understand
but I don't know why the oxidation number of C5H5 is -1, also why the iron of ferrocene is stable because of 18 rule.
Fe 1s-2,2s-2,2p-6,3s-2,3p-6,3d-6,4s-2
so 2 8 14 2
how Fe2+ get 18 electrons from C5H5
many thanks! I am a beginner of coordination chemistry