There may be very little gold in gold ore. You may not be attacking all of it with the aqua regia, if its in silicate or or black sand. Even if you are, you may be precipitating vanishingly small amounts of gold dust, not even enough to see. What you have to do is form a gold concentrate -- form a gold-cyanide complex or gold-mercury amalgam from tons of ore, just keep using the same reagent over and over on new batches of ore. Then you'll process the concentrate for a visible quantity of gold.