Under normal conditions (absence of high heat, pressure, strong Lewis acids), we generally would not consider nucleophilic attack from the aromatic ring. Your rationale about PhNH2 having the ability to delocalize its electrons would therefore make CH3NH2 more nucleophilic (basically electron withdrawing effects from the aromatic ring pulls electron density away from the nitrogen, thus making it less nucleophilic). Although sulfur-carbon has poor orbital overlap, the delocalization of electrons found on the sulfur atom should still occur.