The solution is simple.
While the first row elements have the ability to form strong pi bonds, the second, third, and fourth row elements do not. In fact their ability to form pi bonds decreases down the group. Thus, while the first row nonmetals easily form double and triple bonds, second row elements such as sulfur and phosphorous do not.
eg. The molecule S2 and P2 are non-existant due to the high energy of the pi bonds, while O2 and N2 are common.
Thus, if the sulfur atom in thiosulphate ion does not own an extra electron, it must form a double bond with p-orbital overlap - which is highly unstable. Thus, the negative charge is more heavily localised on the terminal sulfur atom to increase stability.
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