I'm currently an undergrad and I have been considering the idea of doing research and going onto grad school for some time now. This past semester, I finally started working in my professor's organic lab. It's only been a few weeks, so maybe I am being a little too paranoid/impatient, but I wanted to ask for everyone's input anyway...
My grad student is very nice and patient, but I get the feeling that he doesn't really take me seriously. He's been late to almost all of our meetings and once just told me to go home because he had nothing for me to do. I get that things happen, but he could let me know a little bit ahead of time at least. I'm supposed to spend 10+ hours of lab every week, but I've actually spent between 3 - 5 because he just doesn't let me do that much. He talks to me about all these readings he wants me to do and all these techniques I'm going to learn, but most of the time all I do is watch him. At this rate, I'm actually learning a lot more in my o-chem lab than I am in the research lab.
I've heard plenty of horror stories about how grad students treat their undergrads like slaves and whatnot. While that wouldn't be too great, I feel like I'd rather be in that position so that I at least know what research is like. Another thing is I feel so out of place at group meetings partially because I spend so little time in lab. The other undergrads have a better idea of what's going on and they also interact a lot better with the other lab members whereas I'm completely off on my own (my grad student doesn't even really interact with me except for that small amount of time we're in lab together).
I can deal with the lateness and even the awkwardness, but I really would like to get serious about doing research. Is it typical for things to be moving so slowly? I'm not expecting a publication or anything, but I kind of need this in order to figure out whether grad school is right for me.