I know this varies depending on circumstance, but if we have Sodium Hydroxide deprotonating a compound that is 20pka (meaning it doesn't totally deprotonate it), and this is allowed to mix for a while... and then this is poured into a picture with a compound that has a pka of 18, is there a way to measure or estimate how rapidly the initial anion will undo and the hydroxide react with the more acidic one?
I know acid/base reactions are fast, but how does this speed change ones a resonance stabilized anion is formed?