I got the correct explanation....
Which is something like this..
Assume you have four rooms to live...if one of the them is highly comfortable to you...then you always prefer to live in that room.....you will not go in another room.....as it is not comfortable....inspite of having a big house...you will not use it economically
The situation second ...let assume that you have only two rooms which are equally comfortable to you...now you have a small house but you're using it economically..
Now you will spend your time equally in both of the room....
So you can consider situation one equivalent to benzylic carbocation
And second situation equivalent to allylic carbocation..
I hope my english is understandable...