Ahhmmm ahhmmm..
Let me put my view..
Imagine your favourite activities are playing Video games(Most Favourite) ,
and other-one Reading Chemistry , spending time in a chemical lab . ( these two are activities are those activities in between you can't choose one that which one you want to do , or say you like them equally.)
You dislikes - Reading history , reading civics , reading economics
Suppose two cases -
Case 1.
You have Four rooms in your house containing these things , stuff are as follow -
1. Video games 2. History books 3. Civics books 4. Economics books
I don't think you are going to spend your so much time in room no. 2 ,3 and 4 .
So The contribution of Room 1 in your life is pretty high ....you are going to live your life in living in room 1.
This the case of Benzylic carbocation
Room no. 1 is the canonical structure containing aromatic ring.
Case No. 2
You have two rooms containing these things -
1. Chemistry books 2. Chemical Lab
So in this case you are going to spend your time in both of the room. Equally ...
This is the case of allylic carbocation..
All rooms are equivalent , i.e similar (or say identical )resonatic structure brings more stabilty to the system .
That why both (benzylic and allylic) have similar stability order..….
Note : only no. Of resonatic structure don't decides the stability..