Okey, my conclusion:
If I want to keep all atoms in a molecule as sphere, then all the sphere need to decrease in size to have a new vdW radii equal the covalent radii ?
I can make it more accurate by:
if I am going to be able to simulate the atoms by them self but not as sphere(rather the real shape), I need to know the vdW sphere of the molecule and put the form (guitar etc) to each atom in the molecule, so that they create the complete form of the molecule in the end.
Therefor I am gonna look up in a table how the form should be, and let this form oscillate to simulate atomic vibrations.
Thank you, I think I understand now, add comments if you have any