Hi Arkon.
I start by dealing with all in mmol/mg/ml. and mole ration of Ca:EDTA is 1:1. so mmol of EDTA is (0.010mmol/ml x 8.1ml) = 0.081mmol.
mmol of Ca in 10ml is 0.081, so in 100ml 0.81mmol.
mass if ca in 100ml then is (0.81mmol x 40.08 mg/mmol) = 32.5mg.
Assuming this is actually correct, I don't feel I am following a proper 'applies to all formula' and would be confused if the question was posed differently.
for the second question: I think the temperature is throwing me off...is it relevant to the question? I think I would follow the lines of dividing the final mass by the molar mass and converting to percentage but I don't know where to fit both these weights in (I am sure both are relevant). I realise that is not a very good start...!