You can make bensyloxymethyltributyltin and this can be transmetalated with butyllithium to form bensyloxymethyllithium at -78°C.
I have never seen the methoxymethylmagnesiumbromide you want to make, I think you get alpha-elimination or Wurtz-type coupling if you try to make it from methoxymethylbromide and magnesium. It was some years ago I made this chemistry so I could be remembering things wrong.