I have worked with epoxides and reacting it with diethyl malonate with base is a slow reaction that needs heating. I think the epoxide in this case can be a bit special because its a tertiary benzylic carbon, very SN1-reactive. It could open to diol during the epoxidation with m-CPBA.
I have done a epoxide ring opening reaction with an amine using calcium trifluoroacetate as catalyst following a literature condition.
My understanding of this reaction is via the formation calcium-oxygen complex to active the epoxide ring. It worked great.
It's an open-access literature (
http://acta-arhiv.chem-soc.si/61/61-1-67.pdf).
By the way, epoxide ring opening is a well studied reaction. I did find couple of reviews which gave me detailed infomation.
Epoxidation is also a well studied topic. You can also find reviews about this. I agree mCPBA may be too aggressive for this starting material. One milder epoxidation condtion I have done uses tungsten/H2O2 biphase catalytic system. By changing the temperature/concentration, the amount of active tungsten-oxygen complex can be controlled. This methodology is being developed and new papers are available every now and then. You can find this method in this link (
https://pubs.acs.org/doi/abs/10.1021/jo990790z). There are much more stories about this methodology if you keep digging.