Can you show as an example of the reaction you mean, its bit hard to follow your post. Anyway,
a) if the electrophile is chiral, then you are likely get a mixture of diastereomers - the chiral center on the electrophile doesnt change a configuration. If you are lucky, you might get single product
b) if the nucleophile is chiral aldehyde, then it doesnt matter because you form planar enolate and lose the chirality. Leading to a mixture of diastereomers
c) If the nucleophile is chiral its ketone and you generate the enolate on the other side of the ketone, then you should get a mixture of diastereomers as well but depending on the conditions you can get a single product (see evans auxiliary)