For reaction 1, the attack is at the γ-phosphorus, and ADP is the leaving group. For reaction 2, the attack is at the β-phosphorus, and the leaving group is AMP. For Reaction 3, the attack is at the α-phosphorus, and the leaving group is adenosine.
Things get a little bit more complicated with acetyl phosphate, another high-energy phosphate compound and one that is a mixed anhydride. IIRC whether hydrolysis is at the P-O bond or the C-O bond depends upon pH. I would have to double-check this, however.