I think all of the veteran regulars to the forums use the Socratic method.
As far as misdirection, everyone is human in making mistakes, but it can be confusing like ?*? (which I just found is equal 49,000 according to wiki) to said.
I think It's funny when people get irritated. It's their loss, but it leads to the cliche that teaching a man to fish instead of just giving him the fish is better.