I'm just going off of previous experience. My experience has nothing to do with biodiesels, but the method may work for you, or it may not be applicable at all.
mono, di and tri *should* all react differently in terms of solubility to pH adjustments, right? If so, you can try altering the pH of the solution in a separatory funnel and running TLC methods to see what various parts are present. Just so you know where I'm coming from, we use this method to distinguish between mono, di, and tri version of the compound below. Obviously, once we have the one we want, we run NMR to verify, but this is good for quick work to see which one we actually have.
So...whether it has any bearing on what you do or not, I dunno, but I thought I'd throw it out there.