Ok, I have solved the problem.
As dissociation constants are not realy fixed numbers, I used the pKa2-value that was given in my notes (7.12), but more often 7.21 is used. Doing the mats with the 7.21 value, I get the 5.5 g of NaOH that is needed.
And Borek, your tip concerning the densities made my check the density of a 85% H3PO4 solution in the lab, and it should be 1.7 g/cm³ instead of tha 1.17 g/cm³ that was given in my notes. Doing it with that number I got 6.7ml of the solution.
So thank you, but unfortunately my course notes are full of this kind of (typing)mistakes.