I don't think that a carbanion is more stabilzed by a methyl group than a carbocation. Here are my thoughts:
The stabilization of a carbocation is based on an interaction of the antisymmetric C-H-orbital (which is constructed from the linear combination of two C-H-orbitals) with the p-orbital. The two electrons are in a bonding orbital. Assuming a planar carbanion, it would result in a small destabilization (4 electrons), so this will not occur.
Also supposable would be a form of negative hyperconjugation, which is observed for carbanions substituted with a CF
3 group. The lone pair can be delocalised into the
orbital. This stabilizes the system.
Now if you have a CH
3 group instead, the energy of the
orbital is too high for an interaction.
==> In your picture the most important resonance structures are the one with the negative charge at the oxygen and the one with the positive charge at the trisubstituted carbon.