Your ignition source is not the trouble, it is the same trouble 100's of people have all over the world everyday who try "cool" stuff without doing research first!
You do not have aluminum, you have aluminum coated with an aluminum oxide layer. Aluminum oxide is very stable and nonreactive, and prevents the reaction from taking place. Heck, look at your chemical equation for thermite, this is the product you are forming!
It is not very easy to get Aluminum metal without a layer of aluminum oxide, since we live in an oxygen environment and is readily formed. It is possible though.