Hello rtapan12,
This is an exciting and difficult area of chemistry/mechanics/geology.
Superficial velocity is the hypothetical velocity if the porosity were 100% (which it never is). Yes, pressure and velocity are related to each other. Changing the velocity (with the same differential pressure) will assume the packed column has more or less porosity. As an example, a constant packed column with a porosity of 2 Darcy will have material (gas or liquid) move slower (given a same pressure and everything else being equal - which it never is equal) than the same constant packed column with a lower porosity (lets say 0.2 Darcy).
I am guessing that your question #2 may relate to the ideal packing theory (IPT). Having different sized particles will lower the overall porosity of the packed column. This will lower the efficiency of fluid/gas flow, and will increase the pressure differential for a constant volume of material.
I hope this helps,
Eugene