When something is "deshielded", you are talking about the relative electron density that can shield that nucleus from the magnet. So, if oxygen is more electronegative than nitrogen, how might that influence the available density near the hydrogens on the methylene?
Likewise, now instead of a neutral molecule, such as CH2-O or CH2-N, both of which have lone pairs on the heteroatom, you now have a positive charge on the nitrogen, does this have more or less available electron density than the neutral molecules?