there is several factors to that determine :delta:o , it depends on pairing energy of electrons, energy of transition of d-electrons, charge of central metal ion. so it could not be absolute value of ligands, it is relative and is experimental data (measuring magnetic propertis or absorbtion spectra). for most comon ligands you get series
I-<Br-, Cl- < SCN- (S bonding)< F-, OH-<C2O42-< H2O<SCN- (N bonding)<NH3,py<en<SO32-<dipy,NO2- (N bonding)<CN-<CO