We haven't been given much to go on with this problem, so we are limited in what we can suggest. Is this a mixture of the four isomers? I doubt you can crystalize this from the mixture. I think you might find it difficult to crystalize if you had a pure single compound (racemic or one isomer).
Almost any reaction is potentially selective. Because I don't know what you planned to react the aldehyde with, it is difficult to predict its selectivity, but if it were my problem, I'd give it a try. Given that is the case, I'd be a little selective in how I tried it. Since you have a 3:1 mixture, try a reaction with a 0.25 mol ratio of a similar reagent. What is the ratio of the products and recovered starting material? Is it totally non-selective? Does your reagent react faster with the E or the Z isomer? How low of a temperature can you run the reaction?
I agree with discodermolide. A spinning band distillation column may separate the isomers. However, I don't know whether a spinning band column is available to you. I also don't know how widely separated these isomers are on a boiling point gas chromatography column.
Derivatization: It's an aldehyde, can you do the coupling from an imine? Can you make an imine with something that might increase the selectivity? If your starting material is readily available, you could convert it to the carboxylic acid. There, you should be able to make a crystalline derivative, including separating into the R and S isomers (if not already separated). I'm sure we could go on and on about derivatives, …
Synthesis: Just make the desired compound by another route so you have a single isomer. That looks like it might be the easier route.