You should take a look into Ian Fleming's "Frontier Orbitals and Organic Chemical Reactions".
In short, what I was able to find in there is that the harder the electrophile, the less ortho/para selective it is. That is, nitronium (NO2+) is much harder than bromine (Br2).
I am still trying to find the "why" of this, but I currently do not have the time to reread chapters 1-3 of this book right now.
I hope this helps...