Hi again,
Yes, it might just be sterics. My idea for an MO exercise would be to make an MO diagram for the known complex and for the Re-Re bonded version and try to qualitatively connect and compare the two systems by variance of the Re-O-Re bond angle. Even if there are enough bonding orbitals, there may be poor orbital overlap in the Re-O-Re triangle structure which makes it less favorable. Also, the Re in the latter would be 7-coordinate which would also have an effect on the electronic structure. From a quick literature search I do see 7-coordinate Re complexes to be known, thought it did not seem like there were many examples and so 7-coordinate Re might just be not favorable for some reason.
"electron donors such as PMe3 raise the energy of metal centred non bonding electron pairs" ...
Yes, I believe this to be correct, but I think more needs to be said. Consider an idealized octahedral coordination environment. d
z2 and d
x2-y2 interact with the sigma orbitals of the ligands producing bonding and antibonding orbitals. Since we focus our attention on the frontier orbitals, we don't worry about the bonding orbitals (ie, all the metal MO diagrams you see focus on the five "antibonding" side of the MOs). Thus, degenerate antibonding orbitals arise from d
z2 and d
x2-y2 (the e
g set). In a complex with only sigma-donor ligands, the remaining d-orbitals on the metal (d
xz d
xy d
yz) have no net interaction with the sigma orbitals and thus are non-bonding. Here you get the t
2g non-bonding orbitals. Now--when you change the ligands to pi-donors. The ligand pi orbitals can now interact with the d
xz d
xy d
yz orbitals. This forms a set of bonding orbitals (which again, we don't generally focus on) and a set of antibonding orbitals (a t
2g set). Since antibonding orbitals are destabilized relative to non-bonding orbitals, the pi-donation raised the energy of the t
2g set (previously non-bonding).
So, the statement I quoted above is only true in a comparison between assuming the ligands are sigma-donors to the ligands being pi-donors. It's just a qualitative thought experiment.