OK. okokokok O-KAY.
I left this alone to focus on OChem. Tell me what concept I am misunderstanding, please.
The way I see it (on Part B), you mix the two solutions giving you .02M H4EDTA and .04M NaOH, in effect. The NaOH will neutralize all .02M of the H4EDTA, generating .02M NaH3EDTA in the process and leaving us with .02M NaOH. This, in turn, will neutralize all .02M of the H3EDTA, generating .02M of Na2H2EDTA.
From there, it's an easy weak monoprotic acid dissociation problem with a pKa of 6.3 giving a pH of 4.0. This obviously isn't right. Ugh. Where am I screwing up?