there is the
nitrogen dioxide molecule NO
2 , with 23 electrons total ( i.e. a free radical, and violating the octet rule at that)
it's an uncharged particle
also, there is the
nitrite ion NO
2- , with 24 electrons total
it obeys the octet rule and bears a single negative charge
i.e.: two different species, and both exist in their own right
However doesn't that break the law of conservation of mass?
I'm not sure that I understand the what you're asking, i.e. how the conservation of mass possibly could be violated here. Could you pls. expand on this?
Where does the extra electron come from?
like always in chemistry: from someone else, who in return became a positively charged cation
regards
Ingo