I am afraid you won't get around some math to understand this better. Did you hear about the Schrödinger equation and wavefunctions? and what orbitals really are?
why do you think that the overlap (as you define it) is a problem?
just saying: Orbital overlap is a mathematically well-defined quantity and the meaning is a bit different than yours...
Thanks for replying
I have heard about the Schrodinger equation and I know that that is where 3 of the 4 quantum numbers came from. I haven't studied it yet.
You asked me is it a problem if orbitals overlap? I suppose not. I was thinking that if the spatial co-ordinates were identical then they would have the same quantum numbers, but thinking about it a bit more I don't think that's the case. Do the electron density maps show max density where there's maximum overlap of orbitals? I believe they show max density near the nucleus, but in a "big" atom, with d and f orbitals, wouldn't you be able to see higher density where these orbitals overlap away from the nucleus?
With the electrons carrying a charge, I am certain that they can't be in the same space at the same time.
I know that you can't know the location and momentum of an electron, but I my studies so far the s,p,d orbitals have been discussed separately, but when I think of the atom as a whole I visualise that these orbitals occupy much the same space and nothing has been said about that