You're going to have to define your reactants better. MEA could mean anything, and formalin may have a common industry definition, but could technically be any concentration of formaldehyde in water.
Once we were reasonably sure, or at least knew the ranges of concentrations, we could theorize how much heat is generated, and how much of that heat could be absorbed by water's heat capacity. Assuming we don't end up with two phases floating on each other.