This is how I consider it. Aromatic is a low energy form and anti-aromatic is simply a higher energy form. If sufficient forces can be brought to bear, then it may be possible to find an example of an anti-aromatic compound, such as a cyclobutadiene. However, if a molecule can adopt a conformation or the stereoelectronics of a molecule are such that the electrons cannot be shared, then it can be aromatic, non-aromatic or anti-aromaticity may not be an issue.
For example, the non-bonded electrons of pyridine are orthogonal to the pi-electrons of the ring and it therefore is aromatic. The non-bonded electrons of furan can adopt a conformation that allows them to participate in a now lower energy aromatic form. Now, when you get to cyclooctatetraene, if planar, anti-aromatic, however, it can adopt a non-planar conformation and therefore is non-aromatic.