1). The 1H-NMR and IR spectra are not identical but they are slightly different. To detail:
1H-NMR: Methylene peak may be slightly shifted, which makes it looking like identical with the starting material.
IR: C=S absorbs at 1200-1050 cm-1, which is the zone of C-O absorption that makes difficult to identify a thiocarbonyl compound in mixture with an ester. Or even impossible, if peaks overlapping occurs.
So, you superpose the corresponding spectra of the product and the starting material, look at them towards a light source and search for slight differences.
2). You can also try UV or/and 13C-NMR spectroscopy.
3). But first of all, did TLC show any formation of your product?