Drawing the Lewis structures for SO2 and O3, I get these (resonance structures not shown):
For both SO2 and O3, I have three lone pairs on the single bond terminal O, one lone pair on the central O, and two lone pairs on the double bond terminal O that matches the requisite total of 18.
It would appear that selenium is not unique in this regard, but I still would request some clarification as to how and why this works.
S and O (like Se) are both Group 6A with 6 valence electrons and need two additional electrons to complete their octets.
According to these examples, it would appear that the number of valence electrons to form an octet (get to the next higher noble gas configuration) is not a limiting factor in the number of bonds these elements can form?
Or is it that each "electron group" (in this case, the double bond) counts as 1 bond?
If it is either of these cases, then I would like to know if S and O can form three or four bonds like:
X -
O - X
X -
<or>
X -
O = X
X -
<or>
X - - X
O
X - - X
If yes, then why is C noteworthy for being able to form four bonds?
If not, why can S/Se/O form three bonds (one more than the number of valence electrons they need to complete their octet) but not four (or more)?
I am guessing the answers to all these questions somehow involves the double bond - should the double bond be counted as one bond (at least in terms of how many bonds an element can form)?
But if the double bond is counted as one bond, then why can H not form double bonds (the 1s orbital supports two electrons)?
I know there is most definitely a really obvious simple thing I am missing, but I just cannot seem to understand why certain elements can apparently ignore the "number of needed valence electrons to form an octet" being a bond-number limiting factor while others cannot?