But doesn't the conjugate acid have to have a positive charge, and the conjugate base a negative charge?
No. They have to differ by one charge as they interconvert by accepting/donating proton...Na+ is just a spectator...
I guess you don't mean to say that the conjugate acid and conjugate base should differ by one..
You mean to say that the (non-conjugate)acid and conjugate base, should differ by 1. And that the (non-conjugate) base, and conjugate acid, should differ by 1.
It seems to me that the conjugate acid and conjugate base could have the same charge and do in this example.
e,g. So in Na2O + H2O --> 2NaOH
Given that Na is just a spectator ion.. (or taking Na as a spectator ion)..
Our "non-conjugate acid" is H2O
Our "non-conjugate base" is O
Our conjugate base is OH- (H2O minus H)
Our conjugate acid is OH- (O plus H)
Our "non-conjugate base" and conjugate acid differ by 1
Our "non-conjugate acid" and conjugate base, differ by 1
And that makes sense because it's a transfer of H+ to make a difference of a charge of 1
I notice that here we have conjugate base of OH- and conjugate acid of OH-
That sounds similar to saying NaOH is the conjugate base and NaOH is the conjugate acid.. just excluding the spectator ion. But perhaps more technically correct to exclude the spectator ion, as you do.
Our conjugate acid and conjugate base have the same charge. Not differing by one.
Often they can differ by two, which they would if the conjugate acid is + and the conjugate base is - like HCl + NH3 <--> NH4+ + Cl-
But you make an interesting point that the conjugate acid and base don't have to be + and - respectively. And in the Na2O + H2O example they're the same. OH- so same charge. I can see that if the charges of the non-conjugate acid and non-conjugate base are neutral, then you get + and - with the conjugate acid and conjugate base. And that supports what you show about not counting the Na+.