I agree, it's probably just coincidental unless something is changing in the NMR tube (like the lactone opening with traces of water). In principle diastereomers should look different in the NMR, even the carbon NMR. I've been able to see diastereomeric alcohols in carbon NMR, but the chemical shifts only differed by about 0.1 or 0.2 ppm. As I recall, I could only resolve the carbon signals on a 500 MHz NMR.