When we have a cyclic structure, the first alkyl group starts from the carbon to the left of the chosen carbon and all of the other carbons, let's say, counterclockwise up to your chosen carbon.
The second starts to the right of the chosen carbon and extends clockwise all across the ring back to the chosen carbon.
You're letting the cyclic aspect confuse you. The alkyl groups depend on what direction you move.
You're thinking that it is the same no matter what direction, but for this purpose just focus on where the donating bonds are coming from.
We typically only focus on the two neighboring carbons, because only they tend to matter. But if you move around the ring from those neighboring carbons you'll get two alkyl groups, depending on what direction you go.
There's no easy way to explain this.
Think of it like this.
If we choose one of those six carbons, we can say that it is bonded to two —CH
2CH
2CH
2CH
2CH
2 groups, one to the left, and one to the right.
That they are all connected is throwing you.